LET FREEDOM RING!

Thank you to all the heroes 

that protect and defend our freedom! 

things that make a momma smile...

My son has been off on his "great adventure" 

for 11 months!

Sometimes I feel like he left yesterday, but 

more often it feels like he  has been a sailor

for a very long time. 

I miss him. Nothing new there,

but there are things things that warm my heart~

like the photo above.♥

My sailor/pirate is in green

and he is dressed for a day of sailing.

Yes, finally he set foot on a BOAT!!

Okay, not a NAVY boat, but a boat nonetheless!

It makes me happy to see him fitting in some fun

and outdoor activity with some of 

his shipmates. You might have to be a 

nuke mom to totally appreciate this. 

My son is over halfway done with part 2 (of 3)

of his nuclear schooling. He has a lot to be

proud of, but still a ways to go. 

He is working hard and he makes me so proud.

It makes the "missing him part" at bit

easier to bear. 

February was a long time ago. That's when I 

last saw him. If all goes well, he will

graduate Power School on Sept. 14th.

I am counting the days! 

The Navy continues to teach not only my son,

but me as well. I have learned so much

about faith and letting go.

I have learned that you can live 

with your heart in two places at once.

And that makes me smile.

~♥~

anchored by love

Children are the anchors that hold a mother to life.

~Sophocles

That's me, yours truly, with all my sweet babies.

This photo is from last Christmas, the last time we

were all together. It will be next Christmas before

we will all be together again. That's a long time. 

Today was my first Mother's Day since my sailor son 

(that guy in stripes in the middle) left to serve.

It has been a good day, but tinged with a bit 

of heartache. My sailor called me! In fact,

since my birthday was just a few days ago

I have actually talked to him several times in the 

past few days.He sounds good.

Power School is going well. He is sounding

more confident and less exhausted.

That makes me very happy.

Honestly, I do not love my nearly empty nest,

even-though I KNOW that healthy birds

leave the nest. I can't help it. I miss them.

I hate the silence. My 15 year old is not a 

noisy kid and he is at that "shut the door

and hide out in my room" age. 

I stay busy and I truly count myself blessed.

But oh how I miss those sweet faces, those silly 

kids, those beautiful hearts that anchor me.

On my birthday my husband and kids and I had 

a wonderful evening. We all missed our

sailor boy. My husband ordered our sailor's 

favorite dish and ate it in a weird sort of tribute 

to him. LOL...Okay, we are sort of odd...

I admit it.

I remind myself, that I have 4 wonderful kids, 

that I am blessed beyond any earthly measure.

I am so grateful that the love we share 

anchors us all. 

Who could ask for more?

~♥~

good stuff

So... my sailor is in his second level of nuke school~ Power School. 

He is super busy. Along with a very challenging school, these sailors 

still have to do their "Navy stuff". No rolling out of bed and falling into 

class late, unshaven, in shorts and a t-shirt... No skipping class. And 

there is still PT and other Navy things that fill their days. Evenings are

for studying. All materials are classified, so studying is done in the classroom.

All of this added together equals limited communication. 

It is hard, to be honest. But you learn to appreciate an answered text...

it may be answered many hours (or even days later) and then there 

is the rare phone call. You adapt... pray a lot... get support and understanding

from your Navy mom "sisters"...

 and for me~ I stay busy! 

My happy place (aside from the beach) is CREATING! 

I have been enjoying making Navy related jewelry lately. 

Stamping metal (embossing?) is really fun. 

It also makes me happy to know that I am creating

for Navy moms, wives, significant others.

I have a shop on Etsy... Son and Sea Shop

I keep my prices low and US shipping is always free.

It will be a long time until I see my sailor, but I am so proud of him.

He has accomplished a lot in the almost 9 months since he shipped.

I miss him so much every day, but I have to focus on the "good stuff". 

There is so much to be grateful for. And I am. ♥ 

sisters of the heart

So, as of 4/8/12 my son has been in the Navy for 8 months. 

It is rather surreal. 

I am very proud of what he has accomplished.

Nuclear Field A School is done. He is a 3rd Class Petty Officer.

And now he is in the 2nd level of his schooling... Power School.

He seems well adjusted to military life.

He seems impossibly far away.

The nature of nuke school makes communication spotty. 

School days are long and study hours take up much of the limited

"free time" the sailors have. 

I have to be honest... there is a huge hole in my heart.

I don't mention it, except to my "sisters"~

my Nuke mom friends. 

We buoy one another~ laugh, cry, pray, share too much~

and build a bond that is so deep and strong. 

I love them.

That is the condolence prize...

the gift of true friends and I am so grateful for it.

Still, I miss my sailor every day... miss him thundering down

the stairs and drinking all the milk. 

I miss his loud truck and I miss

cooking for him and talking to him.

We won't see him until late September.

My Navy sisters will keep me afloat.

And I will do the same for them.

~♥~ 

A School~ check!

Going to see my sailor graduate from Nuclear Field 

A School was a great experience!! 

I am so grateful that I was able to attend

and share this moment with my son.

The graduation ceremony was impressive. 

My sailor is very proud of his "crows" and red chevron

that indicate his new rank of MM3.

He is a 3rd Class Petty Officer!

He worked hard for this!

Yes, I took a zillion pictures! 

The one above is inside the legendary

Rickover Building. I did not, for the record,

have my soul sucked out of me, but the sailors claim this 

building does just that. ;)

It was so good to see the base and know where my son lives.

Behind him is the Subway where he eats OFTEN! 

He introduced me to the guys and gals that work there

and they were so sweet and friendly. 

I met some of his buddies and passed on mama-hugs

from their moms. 

We visited the USS Yorktown- a WWII era aircraft carrier.

It was so fun we went back the next day 

with some of my son's buddies.

It was cold, but beautiful in Charleston.

And we got to go to Folly Beach, which was so pretty!

We nearly froze, but it was worth to see the beautiful Atlantic! 

What a blessing it was to spend these days with my son.

But let me tell you this...

goodbye does not get easier. 

My sailor starts his next level of schooling,

"Power School", in April. The next time I see him

will be September or October ~ the longest

time not seeing him so far. 

I remind myself that he is doing well,

that this is HIS journey and his life

and I am filled with pride and happiness.

Still, I miss him every day. 

~♥~

half a year later...

~class 1203-A

My Navy mom journey continues...

On Monday my son passed his A School Comps at 

Navy Nuclear Power Training Command. 

He graduates on Friday and will be a Third Class Petty Officer.

He has a lot more hard schooling ahead of him, but this

is a great accomplishment. Nuke school is generally regarded

as one of the most academically demanding school in the military. 

My sailor has had his ups and downs and has worked

so hard to get to this point in his training.

Along the way he has adjusted to military life, lived far

from family, maintained a long distance relationship

with his sweet girl, learned to do laundry and made some 

friends for life. His visit at Christmas was a joy

for our entire family. 

As for me~ I have stayed BUSY and have somewhat

adjusted to my nearly empty nest. Now 3 of my 4 

kids are launched out into the world. 

I miss them, but I know this is the way of the world. 

My other 2 grown kids are close by and I see

them often. My sailor is far away and so busy with 

nuke school and Navy life. His days are long.

Thank God for technology. I am grateful for texts, 

FaceBook and phone calls to keep us connected. 

But truth is, I miss him all the time.

~♥~

I am so proud of all my sweet kids. 

~♥~

I am blessed beyond measure...

and~ I am going to Charleston to see my sailor graduate! 

Oh, happy day!!!

~♥~